Three Types of Sex
I am going to bring up something that I didn't plan to really talk about in my blog: sex.Maybe because people have been sending me links to these types of blogs-and oh how there are many! I was reading, and the blogs are SO private and personal! I don't undeerstand how people can be so free with these types of things, but I digress....
So anyway, when I was highschool I came to the conclusion that there were three types of sex:
1.) Fucking-place animalistic primitive sex w/ someone you could easily displace
2.) Having sex-sex w/ someone who you like
3.) making love-sex with someone who you love
These categories remain intact today.
I am positive that most of the time, people are just plain fucking. Now, there is nothing wrong with fucking, but really-and maybe I am just being a typical female with this statement but: where is the real intimacy? Hello! Some guys dick is in your body? Like, I don't understand how people can take this so lightly. Sex is the most intimate and private thing two people (or 3 or maybe 5 if your into that, but then again, that would be fucking, not having sex, and definately not making love) can share and it just boggles me that people can be so blase about it.
After all, being blase is what began the AIDS epidemic and std breakout in the 70's. But, anyway, I am convinced that true genuine caring affection must be present in order to have true sexual satisfaction-well, at least for me. I have to think that the guy is really just not after sex with me, that he may (GASP!) actually like and respect me as a person. Holy shit! We'll, it seems everyone around me has completely bypassed this phase and went straight to fucking or having sex with people on a whim or to 'release tension" walking around on the prowl like animals.
I just don't get it.
Sure, a good fuck is nice. In fact, sometimes it is warranted, one needs it. But really....even for a good fuck I have to actually really like that person, like enormously in order for me to even be able to think of that sort of thing.
Oh, well it looks like at heart, I am just a good girl. Hey, it is better than being a whore......
posted by The Eternal Student @ 2:00 PM
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